Memorial Tattoo

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This is the tattoo that my eldest daughter just got in memory of my parents.  Dad died December 4th, 2017 and Mom followed 2 years and 1 day after on December 5th, 2019.  The 7 shamrocks represent them, myself and my 4 other siblings. O’Brien was my maiden name.  What a testament to her love of us all!
The center symbol is the Claddagh which holds a special place in the hearts of our family.  A little background for you:

The Legend of the Claddagh

The story of the Claddagh is based in rich Irish culture. It begins about five centuries ago in the fishing village of Claddagh, just outside the city of Galway. Men of the village, much as they do today, would go out to the sea, each day, to fish for food for their families and other villagers. The sea presented many dangers. On some days the sea was high and on others the current was strong. The greatest risk, however, was that there were pirates. On one such day, the story goes, a young man was fishing at sea with other men from his family. Suddenly, from their small boat, they spied a Spanish pirate ship. That sight, the men were certain sealed their fate. The pirates captured the men from Claddagh and brought them to the far off North Coast of Africa. It was there that they were sold into slavery for what they were sure would be the rest of their lives. Richard, the youngest of those captured, was the most distraught. All men had left loved ones behind, but Richard had just met his true love and now feared that he would not live to see her again. Years passed and several of the men died. Others accepted their fate. Richard worked as a slave, but continued to long for a return to his village and to his beloved. To keep his spirits up and to keep hope in his heart, each day Richard stole a tiny speck of gold from his slave masters in the goldsmith shop where he tended the fires. Years passed and, with his tiny pieces of gold, he was finally able to fashion a ring. It was his hope that, despite what seemed nearly impossible, he would return to his village and present the ring to his true love. No one really knows if Richard escaped or earned his release from slavery, but in either event, the day finally came when Richard could begin the long trip back to his village in Ireland . . . to his home. At his journey’s end, Richard was overcome with joy when he learned that his beloved had remained true to him in his long absence, waiting faithfully for him to return. It was on that day that Richard gave his beloved the ring he created that is now known worldwide as the Claddagh Ring. The Claddagh design appears not only in rings, but in other types of jewelry as well. The heart in the cladadgh symbolizes the love Richard longed to share with his true love. The crown symbolizes his undying loyalty and the hands symbolize friendship, which is, after all, the very foundation of love, with loyalty holding the two hands together. The Claddagh design became popular as an engagement or a wedding ring. It took on even more significance when Claddagh rings began to be worn widely by women throughout Ireland, on the west coast and the islands, where the claddagh may well have been the only major “investment” in a fishing family, an heirloom handed down from mother to daughter.

There even is a guide which explains the symbolism of how the ring is worn. If the ring is worn on the right hand with the heart pointing out, it means that the wearer’s heart is uncommitted. Worn on the same hand with the heart pointing inward, the Claddagh ring means that the wearer’s heart is taken. Worn on the left hand with the heart pointing inward, it means “Let Love and Friendship reign forever, never to be separated.” The Claddagh has a rich heritage and will surely be in vogue for many years to come.

Peace and Love,

Teresa Marie

 

Thursday’s Thoughts

On The Red, White and Blue

Everyone knows
just where I stand
on the red, white and blue
symbol of our land.

I have shared my thoughts
when they’re asked of me
on “In God We Trust”and
“My Country ‘Tis of Thee”

The pledge of allengiance
it should be made clear
is recited by all
who choose to live here

Give our flag the honor
and respect it commands
as the symbol of freedom
that governs these lands

With life and liberty
come opportunities
not separate laws and
closed communities

Jesus said we must all
“Love one another”
not viciously kill
our sister or brother

When I hear those words
“Oh say can you see,”
I’m proud to sing
“My Country ‘Tis of Thee!”

God bless America!

“I pledge allegiance
to the flag
of the United States of America
and to the Republic
for which it stands,
One nation
under God
indivisible
with liberty 
and justice
for all.”

 Teresa Marie 7/15/16

Weekend Wisdom?

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Have a great weekend my loves!  And don`t forget to thank God for at least one thing as you enjoy yourselves xoxo

Sunshine

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“You are my sunshine”
I softly sing to you
For the warmth of your smile
is what carries me through

Thinking I can’t go on
until I see your face
Holds a smile as you sleep
and my heart skips a pace

Sometimes I get cranky
say I can take no more
But you know just how much
you are loved and adored.

Grandma  6/26/16

I Thought of You Today

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My Long Overdue Updates

Finally have some good news to share with you:

Sara’s son Sebastian is such a treasure for us!  Though it was not in our plans to be “parents” again at our age, it seems to have been a blessing in disguise, no big surprise to God I’m sure since His plans always work to our good!!
Sara’s postpartum depression “baby blues” have totally thrown her for a loop. I feel so bad for her! She said they seem to have hyper-intensified every other problems she already had but was trying to avoid having to deal with, like panic attacks, mood swings, etc. and not to mention damage of her abuse.
We have her set up with counseling until she is 18 and then she will move to the Behavioral Science Dept. at the hospital as an out-patient. I pray they can help her overcome the past and give her hope for a happy & healthy future.
We have talked about & agreed on Mark and I taking custody of Sebastian until she gets it together enough to feel capable of raising him on her own. That will ensure his position in the family should anyone try to say that Sara’s is incapable of caring for him. Always have to cover your butt legally these days you know!

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Blaine’s family are growing like weeds! The twins are 1&1/2 now.
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As well as Shawna’s.
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Mark’s dad’s chemo is going well. The small spot on his brain is gone and the rest have not grown. Your prayers are helping, thank you so very much!!

I still have my days where I cry about missing Penny. Especially when I’m stressed out and need to vent or have a sounding board. I know she’s happy in heaven but it still hurts.

Mom and dad are still plugging away in Florida still and probably won’t come home until some time in April.

Just wanted to drop you a line and catch you a more up to date!!

Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we keep you in ours.

God’s peace and blessings upon you and your’s all,
Terri

On the Loving Side

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Calling Out to My Praying Friends

Hello dear friends!  September was a busy month for many reasons, some good and some bad.

In  addition to dad, Shawna and Blaine having their birthdays; Sara gave birth to her first child, Sebastian Lee, weighting 7# 1oz, 19″ long, on Sept. 17th.  She and her fiance are thrilled with their little cutie pie:

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That was the good news!

A week or so after that we found out that Mark’s dad has a fast growing cancer in his throat.  Specifically, in the lymphnoid just below his esophygas which feeds all the others below it.

I am asking everyone to say a pray for him, please. 

The first of October I lost my best friend, Penny!!  Those of you who have been with me for a while know who she is and just how much I loved her.  It was a total shock and I am still processing  it.  The grief has been overwhelming to me.  I am praying that if God intends to take Al from us too that he waits for a minute or two so I can get my breath.

When things like this happen, always ask God what it is that He is preparing me for that requires me to be so strong?  With everything happening in the world right now I’m not sure I want to know the answer to that question, but that’s a discussion for later on.

Please keep us in your prayers!
Love and blessings to you all!
Terri

New Family Photos

My eldest Shawna and her new beau; isn't she beautiful?
My eldest Shawna and her new beau; isn’t she beautiful?

 

 

Emily Grace and Christopher James; her babies
Emily Grace and Christopher James; her babies

 

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My youngest beauty, Sara Jayne with one of her many hair coloring jobs.

My youngest beauty, Sara Jayne with one of her many hair coloring jobs.

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Us three girls and one of the few photos that you will ever see of me, lol!
Us three girls and one of the few photos that you will ever see of me, lol!

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My second child; son Blaine and his wife Cait.  Another gorgeous couple if I do say so myself :)
My second child; son Blaine and his wife Cait. Another gorgeous couple if I do say so myself 🙂

 

If you are wondering about the tat's:  that's a Gaelic cross  in the center and the Serenity Prayer on his shoulder
If you are wondering about the tat’s: that’s a Gaelic cross in the center and the Serenity Prayer on his shoulder

 

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Their eldest son Trenton is in the yellow tank top; with cousins Emily and CJ and someone I don't know.
Their eldest son Trenton is in the yellow tank top; with cousins Emily and CJ and someone I don’t know.
LIlly Jo
LIlly Jo
Hayden Ray
Hayden Ray
Twin love
Twin love

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